With housing inventory low and prices going up, some people are making the decision to partner with friends and buy a home together. This scenario allows people who otherwise would not be able to afford a house to share expenses and achieve the dream of becoming homeowners. But how do you know if buying property jointly is the right move for you?
It is important to remember that this is a business transaction, so you and your friends will have to approach it as such. You are going to have to have a very open, very frank conversation with your friends about your finances and their finances, both parties’ plans for the future, what to do if someone wants to sell, etc. If these are conversations you are uncomfortable having or you are worried about the effect they might have on your friendship, then buying a home with friends is probably not the right choice for you.
However, if you and your friends can come to terms, owning a home while sharing the burden of all the costs can help you build your savings while gaining equity in a home.
Below are some tips on purchasing a home with friends.
Review your friends’ finances. This is most likely the largest financial decision of your life, so now is not the time to hem and haw on questions of finance. You will need to be aware of everyone’s credit scores, income, savings, and any other relevant assets. It is important to make sure that you and your friends are financially prepared to become homeowners.
Decide how payments and costs will be split. Questions to consider are how much each person will contribute to the down payment and if that will affect how you and your friends divide the mortgage payments? Whose name will the utilities be placed in? Will the utilities be split evenly every month, or will you alternate who pays? Additionally, how and who will pay for homeowners insurance, property taxes, repairs and maintenance. It is important that these details be worked out and understood by everyone involved before the home is purchased.
Decide on the type of house. Are you planning on buying a single-family home or a multi-family home? Do you see yourself sharing a kitchen and bathroom or are you looking to buy a place where you will each have your own private spaces? You should also decide ahead of time on everyone’s must-haves for the home. Knowing that your friend will only buy a house with a big backyard or that they will not buy a house on a corner lot can save you precious time when house hunting.
Get everything in writing. It is important that all co-purchasers keep written documentation of all your agreements regarding financial and other responsibilities. So many people think that because they are dealing with friends there is no need to write up a contract. However, honoring your friendship and avoiding conflicts and surprises down the road can make this written document invaluable.
Work with a Realtor®. Buying a home is an important decision, and whether you are doing it on your own or with a friend, using a Realtor® is a smart move. A Realtor® has tremendous resources and can provide counsel, discuss listings, show you homes in person, write and negotiate the contract, provide lender information, coordinate inspections, appraisals, surveys, and work with all the required elements, people, and items needed to get the transaction to closing. Your Realtor® will help you stay focused on the issues that are most important and provide answers to your real estate questions.
Enter your home buying arrangement with a friend educated and prepared and all will have a fun and exciting time co-purchasing as you place your foot on the first step
of the homeownership ladder.
Resources: National Association of Realtors®
